Shy partner woes
Question: I will be getting married soon. Besides the fact that I am aesthetic about the whole wedding euphoria, am also a tad bit scared. That’s because my marriage is an arranged one. I have heard that men have preferences when it comes to sex. I really don’t want to mess it up on our first night. So I want to know what are his expectations from me. But I am too shy to talk about this with him. Though we talk everyday, we never touch this topic and mostly stray away from it. Do you think am being paranoid? Am just a bit tensed regarding this whole situation. Please help. Name withheld
Answer: It’s not unlikely that you are edgy about the whole sex thing that usually follows marriage. It’s really very intelligent of you to think about asking your fiancé about his preferences. And trust me, you are not being paranoid. This is an obvious query.
Sex is a very intimate affair. In case of love marriages, the curiosity quotient is quite less as you know the person you getting married to pretty well. So you might know what are his pain points and preferences. But in an arranged marriage,... continue reading rest of the article on BollywoodShaadis.com, click here>>
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